unhealthy

There are some people that don't want to change their unhealthy ways. I obviously do! It's kinda sad when you are glad to get away from unhealthy people and end relationships with them. I was not planning on blogging about this, but.... here am I because they turned around and said some nasty things about me on their blog! Really? I'm not here to bash this person. I've observed that some people LOVE drama, they keep it going FOREVER!

This past week I've done a few things out of the ordinary for self protection. I've realized that I can avoid the drama and not keep it going and going. I hung up in the middle of someone saying something to me because I didn't want to go there. I avoided another conversation all together to avoid the inevitable drama.

A few weeks ago my friend asked me what to do in a situation. I told her, well, even though you WANT to text back and say (whatever), that will only stir the pot and cause more drama. OR you can just drop it, leave it at that and let it go. She decided to not respond.

It has been sad watching this person stuck in the Drama Triangle, stuck always being the victim. To be honest, always playing the victim is so emotionally draining. I for one am happy that I am striving to move on with my life and trying to stay out of my own Drama Triangle.